Friday we attended our orientation with the adoption agency. I was SO prepared to feel overwhelmed, but I feel even more peace about our decision to go with this agency. You all know how I feel about birthmother's, and this agency has such an amazing ministry for birthmom's regardless of whether they decide to parent thier child or place it with another family. No matter what the decision this agency offers them a lifetime of counseling.......at no charge! Isn't that AWESOME? What a way to bless these mothers.
We left our house early to drive down to Nashville, so that we would have enough time to stop and grab some breakfast. We stopped about 3 minutes from the church that was hosting orientation. I wolfed my breakfast down and then sat there, ever so patiently ;) while my DH SLOWLY ate his breakfast.....I was so anxious to get there and make sure we had a seat up front. Of course we were about 15 minutes early, and I was able to grab the oh so coveted front table....Ahhhh....breathe...seriously, I had to remind my self to breathe.
Now, to those who know me they will tell you that I am goofy, fun, outgoing and quite personable. However, itinitially, I am kind of quite and shy. We had another couple (whom I will refer to as the Nix) that sat at the table with us, and they were so incredibly nice. Mrs. Nix introduced herself and her husand to me, (first, of course, because I was just gonna sit there like a bump on a log!). Once the orientation started, all the couples in the room had the opportunity to introduce themselves. There were approximately 15 couples. So it started out with several different people who were in different adoptive situations, the adoptee, the adoptive parents, adoptee adoptive parents, international adoptions, special needs, and even embryo adoptions. It was all very informative and it covered so many different aspects. I loved it! I like to hear people tell stories, so this was a treat for me.
When we took a break for lunch, Mr and Mrs Nix asked us to join them. We headed over to the Cracker Barrel and had an awesome lunch. The food was good and the company was great! They too are homeschoolers, and that is awesome for me, because I have no other friends in this area that I can talk to about homeschool. I really enjoyed talking about the adoption and what we had learned that morning in the orientation.
After lunch we went back to the church for the afternoon session of the orientation. It began with a little Q & A with the social workers. We then received our homestudy paperwork....UGHHHH.....it is alot!! We have to have quite a bit done for this package. We have no due date though, it is all in our own time. We reviewed all the paperwork in the package as a group. We also have required reading. They gave us a list of books and said we have to read 3. We bought one at the orientation. I narrowed the rest of the list down to four. I could not pick only two out of the four, so I bought all four.....!!!! I have come to the realization that my little expandable file I bought for this journey is just not going to work. I am already busting out of it....Oy vey!
We are still praying and seeking God every step of the way through out this process. We can not do this with out his hand guiding us every step of the way.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6
Glad it went well! Hope you can get through the paperwork stage quickly!
ReplyDeleteMe too! It is amazing how much this whole process is such an emotional roller coaster. My sister said, "It's like your actually pregnant!"...well, I have to disagree. Being pregnant was so much easier! lol...Thanks so much for your support!
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